How we met: We met about 2. She lived close, we met up and got on well. After a few months we decided to get together. We were not open at this point. The relationship was great emotionally. She was sweet, attentive, caring and supportive. We also had a lot in common and had fun together, which is what I lacked in previous relationships so I was keen to keep this one and still am. Becoming open: Around months ago give or take, I found myself feeling disconnected from her and the relationship. I ended up singing up to a sex-themed website fetlife. When I was on this website it was like I found what I thought I was missing.

A Really Weird Thing About Attraction
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The reason why an ugly guy can have a hot girlfriend is that women can feel attracted to men for reasons other than looks. Some women will only ever accept a perfect looking male model with loads of money and huge penis, but the majority of women have what I call an Open Type, which means that she is open to being with all different types of guys, as long as the guy can make her feel enough attraction in other ways. Some of the many ways that you can attract women are with your confidence, charisma, charm, humor and masculine vibe. Attraction noun : A quality or feature of someone that evokes interest, liking or desire. If a man is able to make a woman feel attracted to him in other ways e. Even though he might have features that some people would consider ugly e. Most women have an Open Type and are willing to be with all different types of guys e.
Have you ever found yourself at a bar, party or other happening place looking to hook up someone, only to realize you are surrounded by people you are not attracted to, even kinda? You blink, rub your eyes, and take another long swig of your wild ale, and take stock again. Long sigh. Nope, there's not a doable creature to be found in this snakepit. But don't give up just yet: What if I told you that, with a simple reprogramming, you could turn that frown into a potentially satisfying night of untold pleasure by rethinking your most deeply held notions of what's actually hot and instead, have sex with someone you merely find intriguing.